I know some women hate performing oral sex on a guy, and I get it—having someone's junk thrusting inside your mouth and ugh, the annoying head push! But to me, there's nothing more empowering and exciting than to have full control of over a penis—and by effect, the man attached to it. Not to mention, unlike a hand job or even penetrative sex , men can't replicate the sensation of a blow job on their own obviously. Your mouth is wet and warm, like a vagina or a lubed-up hand , but your lips and tongue are living, roving, irreplaceable works of art. But like with any sex act, enjoying the experience yourself which, if you're going to do it, you absolutely should typically comes from having some level of confidence in yourself—and that comes from knowing what you're doing. So here's how to give the best blow job he'll ever have I swear —and making it more pleasurable for yourself in the process:. By far the number one rule for giving good head is acting like you want to be giving head.

Hello, and welcome to your official guide on how to give a blowjob. Here, we discuss all things penises , tongue movements , and everything in between. Maybe you want a way to keep your mouth wet. But before we get into it, I want to make one thing crystal, crystal clear: Do not give a blowjob to anyone until you are fully comfortable doing so. Another thing to be mindful of: Only engage in relationships or situationships with people in which you feel your pleasure is equally reciprocated.

First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins! It sounds intimidating, but the payoff is worth it. Foreplay can mean the difference between a standard oral sex experience and the best.